Friend first introduced “Barbie,” explaining that a normal person with Barbie’s proportions would not be able to function. She exploded some more myths: thin has not always been in; there is such a thing as exercising too much; you can’t always tell if someone has an eating disorder; eating disorders are not just a female problem. And explained some clear dangers: loss of muscle and bone, weakness—sometimes, death.

Both boys and girls were riveted and many raised hands when Friend asked if anyone knew someone with an eating problem. The most-asked question from the students was “How can I help someone I know has a problem?” The answer, from Friend and Middle School teachers was to get help from an adult. “Not doing anything,” said Friend, “is the worst.”